T - the happy and chubby girl
I first met her in 8th grade, she started in 7th grade and quickly became one of the girls in my circles at school. Fun, chunky girl with great humor, wit and a big heart.
During a period T was together with one of my friends and they became an item, were seen together all the time and even hung out during weekends. At some point they broke up and T started hanging with other people, outside our circles. We still hung out at times but nothing like earlier, partied and goofed around.
I kind of had a crush on her while she was together with my friend but never let that shine through, she was taken, occupied and most probably not even thinking of me in that way.
After my military service I ran into T, at a pub, I had missed her and she had missed me and we ended up talking that evening, we decided to go out on a "date" the following weekend, during the week leading up to next weekend I was thinking a lot about her and called her in the evenings, just to talk .. and to hear her voice, yeah, I kind of fell for her there already, again, even though we had known each other for several years at that point. The weekend came and we went out to a restaurant, ate and had a few beers and talked for hours. At one point she sat on my lap and put her arm around me and we joked about of how good of friends we were, she looked me in the eyes and said, - "Hey, I wanna be more than your friend, I wanna be your girlfriend!" - "Oh, I feel the same, I wanna be your boyfriend!" Then we kissed for the first time, and wow .. it was awesome!
We continued kissing and making out, left the restaurant and went home to her place by taxi, actually her parents place as she hadn't moved out yet, went inside to her room, we basically ripped off each others clothes and tumbled around on her bed. We spent the night having sex and cuddling, talking, sleeping and waking up and starting over .. the next morning we had breakfast with her parents. It was a bit awkward and weird at first but once we started talking they eased up. They, her parents had probably heard us as I later discovered that the sound traveled well from her room.
It sounds a bit cheesy but it turned out that she had a crush on me some time before she get together with my friend and that she had suppressed her feelings for me while she was with my friend.
We spent the next couple of months together, seeing each other everyday, either she came to my apartment or her place, we often slept together.
At some point it became the normal and we probably started to take each other for granted. We went out to party with some friends, got a bit drunk, got to her place by taxi, we had sex on the basement floor as we had used the shower and just felt like it, went to sleep after some cuddling. As we were having breakfast she broke up with me, with no explanation, just that she wanted to end our relation.
Later I found out that one of her friends, had tried to set her up with some guy and lied about me to drive a wedge between us. Well, her friend succeeded.
Many years later, I looked up T on social media, she had not settled down and not had any kids, as she was chubby (healthy with some extra weight and big boobs) before, she had now gained some extra weight or perhaps doubled her weight and from her looks, maybe added a few addictions too. She looked unhappy and worn, on all pictures I could find.